Sex is an incredible gift and is a beautiful gateway to physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy. As a Christian, I am firmly against any sexual contact outside of the covenant of marriage. I believe this is beneficial and not merely to uphold social mores (which are continually become lesses). It protects the person physically (disease, unintended pregnancy), emotionally (building sexual bonds without complimentary relational bonds) and spiritually (relationship with God is hindered by sin).
That said, inside of marriage I am a firm believer in rabbit-like behavior. Please your partner completely and let them please you. Often. For this to work, both partners have to understand the differences between their own needs and desires and those of their mate. Believe me, there are some significant differences but nothing that a little understanding and sensitivity can't overcome. I had best end my comments here, lest I make a Staubachian error.
David's introductory post is good stuff but it is somewhat unsatisfying. I can't wait for the climax Part II.
